1. Before becoming involved in any kind of cybersex, please make sure
your spouse, boyfriend, kids, etc. are out of the room at the time,
(preferably out of the house and not during a major holiday when your
in-laws are also present or at a time when all your relatives are in
attendance). It really gets difficult to explain the moaning and
groaning, while the buzz of various "toys" can be heard.
2. For men, before you begin, please check that your modem protector is
on, along with the splash guard for your keyboard. It will stop the
future embarrassment of telling the computer technician that your keys
are "stuck" and you have no idea why.
3. For women, no matter what you are truly wearing, such as: sweatpants,
sweat shirt, torn bathrobe, slippers, t-shirt with stains on the front,
bloomer underwear that could cover a car or be used for a parachute,
always tell your potential cyber partner you are wearing a thong, garter
belt with black stockings, and your best Wonderbra (the one that has
everything pulled up so high your belly button is under your chin), and
a pair of high heels. We don't want to destroy that myth that all women
dress that way when we sit down at the computer (although I truly wear
these things each and every time I sit in front of my computer, it does
seem to cause a bit of a commotion at the office, - but I have certainly
worked my way up the ranks in the company because of it). As for what
the man should be wearing, we all know that they are all naked and
wearing just a smile.
4. If the cyber begins to get very hot please refrain from straddling
your monitor. There are many emergency room stories to be told if you
get overly excited, not to mention the many years of therapy to get you
to let go and not continue this sordid affair with your 15" screen.
5. If the cyber is not going well, please let the other person know in
the best way you can. It is not very polite to tell them that you are
doing your nails, have just made up your grocery list for the next
month, shingled the house, pulled out one of your wisdom teeth because
you were bored, would rather read the instructions on how to set the
time on your VCR, checked your fridge to make sure the light still works
when you open the door, and last but not least, stuck your tongue to an
ice cube tray to stop the monotony.
6. When it really starts getting hot and heavy, please check your
spelling before you send that embarrassing typo, i.e., oh baby, let me
suck on those beautiful beasts of yours. I just love your hot, wet posse
(although it does kinda put a western slant on Things - hmmmm, things
could get interesting with boots and spurs though). Oh baby, you have
such a big coke, (hope you got the supersized fries and burger with
that). That's it baby, show me that beautiful clint, (go ahead, make my
day), and the proverbial oh fork me hard!
7. Pay attention to what is going on. Please refrain from putting your
"coke" in one place, when your cyberpartner had just typed that it was
someplace else. If you have no clue as to where the cyber is going, ask
to buy a vowel. If you are really lost and can't keep up, or you had a
case of premature cybering, and really do not feel like typing for 3
days to satisfy your female counterpart, just pretend you got bumped
off-line. That always works and at least she won't take it so personal.
Please refrain from the excuse, "I have to let my dog out."
8. Once both cyberpartners have been satisfied, or faked satisfaction,
(oh great, we now have the added pressure of faking cyber-orgasms too),
at least say thank you. (Thank you can mean, thank God its over, or
THANK YOU because you truly had a wonderful time.)
9. If it was a truly bad experience, do not feel pressured into ever
having cybersex with this person again. When they ask for your email
address, just give them the wrong one. If they begin to pester you, it's
proper etiquette to just bump yourself off-line, or just say HUH? I
never got your message. Nobody needs to suffer a really bad cyber twice.
10. Last but not least, remember that cybersex will not make you go
blind, unless you keep all the lights out in the house while having it,
watching the screen in the dark does make your eyes burn. Realize that
you may be addicted if your real life partner walks by naked and you'd
rather be typing with one hand and still trying to keep a steady rhythm
going. Sex can be just as nice with a partner you know. And just for
variety, when your right hand gets tired, try dating your left hand for
something different.
